Rumors...gossips...and misunderstanding...

...r, g and m...
these word meant alot to us, influencing most of us i think...
what do u think??
many spreading rumors to drag some attentions, some get their tongue on gossips in order to up-to-date to neews around them and some were misunderstood by those close to them...
sound weird but its truth...
things like these happened everyday, even when i'm talking nonsence here...
everyone have their own way to solve or face the problem, some choose to run away...
what about u..??
well, roughly...
if those things were not true, for what u want to care about?!
if those things are false, there is no need to explain...
as u won't get any truth from something that are false...
if those things are just rumors or simply gossips, ignore it...
well, u will find something very useful as we talk,
if u ignore what other gossiping about, eventually those hot topics will end up to get nothing...
be patience and be yourself
don't change yourself coz of rumors or gossips
stand firm...
unless...they tell you face to face about what they are not satisfy with...(^-^)

...busy...

lately seem very busy for everyone...

works, exam, and other things...

but if one's effort are not valued by those should, well i guess its not that motivating after all....-_-"

青年人（上篇）

班上来了一个英俊帅气的男生，你常常不由自主地想着他。你心想：“反正他根本不知道我是谁，想想他也没关系吧。”另外，你知道喜欢这个男生的不止你一个，因为你听见其他女生也常常谈论他。他简直就是女生们心目中的白马王子！

有一天，正当你还在想的时候，他突然间转过头来看着你，还露出迷人的微笑。你感到很意外，马上换以微笑，他就走过来。

“嗨！”他说。

“嗨！”你也回他。

“我叫彼得。”

“你是刚转来的吗？”你连忙说。

“对啊！我们一家刚搬来几个星期。”

你心里在想“彼得竟然过来跟我讲话，简直就像发梦一样！”

他接着说：“对了，今天放学后我家有一个派对，你要不要来啊？”

他就靠近你一点，向你使一个眼色。

然后说:“别将我没有告诉你啊，我爸妈今天没不在家，家里也有酒，怎么样？来不来？”

彼得正等着你的答复。如果你是哪位女生，你会答应吗？你又会怎样回他呢？

这是在学校我们常见的现象和状况，那么你对此有何看法呢？

在中篇会再多谈，记得留言！*_*

[友谊-珍惜与背叛]

 

友谊...

这词看起来很普通...

读起来很简单...

可是，

它却影响着我们每一个人...

每个人都很注重与其他人的友谊，当我们很在乎这份友谊的关系，

我们就会想办法去维持、维系和加强。

我们都希望友谊能够常驻、友谊万岁...

可是，

当这份关系不再受其中一方所重视的时候，有一关系就会变质

变得虚伪、变得装作、变得伪善...

一份是友谊常驻，友谊万岁

一份是友谊变得虚伪、装作、伪善...

我们都不希望变成后者，
我们往往都希望能得到最好的、更好的...

可是，当我们决定不再重视一断友谊关系时，

其实，我们已选上了后者，也就是把原本真诚的友谊变成虚伪、伪善、装作...

我们有很多的理由去破坏或结束一段关系，

难道我们就没有一个好的理由去维系一段良好的友谊关系吗？

我们身边的朋友，我们都该珍惜他们

因为...

他们给了我们无数的美好回忆、

与我们一起渡过了求学的日子、

一起笑过、哭过、被骂过、被罚过...

我们不是应该珍视它、珍惜它吗？

当然，事实有时是残酷的

由于个人身边所发生的事情，不断地改变

不管是好的、不好的

多多少少都会影响我们的思想和言行...

两个不完美的人的友谊难免都会有摩擦和闹意见的时候

这些预料之外的事、突如其来的事都是我们无法控制的

沟通和讨论才是解决纠纷的方法，

千万别逃避问题

因为

一方越逃避，另一方很可能就会产生更多的误会，使事情变得更糟...

别让我们原本珍视的、珍惜的

变成

我们要去破坏的、背叛的...

[差别]

爱情不是不重要，只是时间未到(不是指命中注定-_-")

想要拥有爱情，个人都要对之负起该有的责任，就如种植一棵树，需要时间，需要耐心，需要关注和滋养；

我们不能拔苗助长，一时的急躁，也许就为一段爱情画上了可悲地句号，留下抹不去的污点。
反之，友谊更为人所要，为人所需，

良好的友谊

能让我们感到无助时得到帮助、鼓励和安慰。
良好的友谊

会让我们觉得自在、开心和做回自己。
在维持良好的友谊方面，同样也需要个人用单纯的眼光去看待它，维系它。
爱情和友情之间，最不一样也最容易被忽视的就是——对象。
到底根对象有什么关系呢？
很多人往往会因为为友谊，就把爱情推一边；

也有人为了爱情，而把友谊推到另一边。
两者都不合理，也不恰当。
在一方很讲义气的情况下，另一方就会过得痛苦一些，

因为爱情需要无时无刻的关注（并不是说要无时无刻的讲电话/sms）

可是当朋友和情人同时出问题时，情人该得的关注该比人对友情的关注多。
无 论发生什么事，都以情人的观点和想法作为出发点，

有意见不合就要商量、不坚持己见、

不做大男人或大女人、

互相的尊重和配合、不互相奚落、

要对对方给予信任 （不是迷信）。

想要拥有爱情的人，你们做好准备了吗？

你能够给与对方以上所说的吗？

在你开始行动追求他人的时候，最好先想想“我能够这样做吗？”

“我准备 好了吗？”
要是你的答案不是很肯定，那么，给自己多点时间吧，在爱情路上没有人会因为“急”而成功。
除了这些，当然还有别的，属外在的因素...
其他的就留下次吧！

 

快乐与忧伤...

你有经历过吗？

相信就算我问完全世界的人，相信每个人的答案都是“有”。对了，不管是多是少，我们每一个人都会经历生活上的起起落落...这样的点点滴滴我们找谁分享呢？是自己收在心理，坑在心头？还是与我们的知己好友分享呢？

无论如何，一个人的快乐，要是与他人分享，就会变成两个人的快乐；一个人的忧伤，要是与他人分享，就能够两个或更多人一起分担，岂不是吗？

时间滴滴嗒嗒的过，我们可以用时间在开心、积极的事上；也能够用在消极、忧伤的事上...

选择都取决于我们自己。

你...会怎样选呢？？

---爱与友谊；爱情与友情---

爱与友谊...

谁能分清呢？

谁能承诺永远呢？

又有谁能够真正的信守承诺呢？

无论有多少的疑问、疑惑和不肯定。

很多人都对爱情有一定的憧憬和期待...

很多的幻想和希望...

可是，

确实有很多人把友情当爱情；把爱情当友情...

因为这样，就出现了两者之间的灰色地带、所谓的暧昧关系还有模拟两可得不肯定状况...

那么到底何谓爱情呢？

那么，有何谓友情？

在我公开我的看法前，就让所有访者来评论看看吧！^-^

（（中文化））

写了那么多的英文，也该写一些中文的。。。

可是，对我来说，打中文字还不是很熟练，不过，

。。。我相信熟能生巧，哈哈哈。。。

等我想到一些有趣的话题在跟大家分享咯^-^

-[TRuE FrIendsHiP]-

 

friendship...things so small but the influence is devastating...

because of it, many have laughter;

because of it,many were cherished;

because of it,many were happy;

because of it,many get help and comfort...

yet...

because of it,many turn against each other;

because of it,many betrayed to each other;

because of it,many cried in the dark;

because of it,many were desperate...

friendship...

need to be treasured,

need to e cherished,

need our effort to sustain it,making it grow stronger each day;

friendship...

a source of power for many in the time of...

anxiety, unhappiness, sad and disappointment;

friendship...

a comfort for those who;

...deeply hurt inside their heart...

cried and despair...

friendship...

a sauce of joy for those who;

have simple heart in having the invaluable friendship...

friendship...

we share our happy things,

things that make us sad,

things that burdened us,

despair and and axiety,

in a TRUE friendship

we share happiness,

sadness,

crying,

stress,

anxieties,

...and a lot more...

well, true friendship is hard to get, 

hard to find...

hard to look for...

but we can still find it,

it need times, energy, and trust...

yet,

a piece of advice,

don't pick wrongly the person we want to put your trust in...

time can prove it!

be patience and observe,

we can find it!

secrets...secrets...-_-'

secret...many people have their own ...no matter they keep it to themselves , keep it together with their friends or family...well
keeping secret is good, but to whom we want to share that secret also very crucial, because we don't want to leak our secret to those we don't want to, isn't it??
well, look for those u really trust and pick those who can be trusted to share your own personal things...
BUT, when u ever need help or advice, don't keep it a secret, look for the solution or help from those person u trust...
...sometimes its hard, but don't give up, look for the best way to solve problem...
remember "when they are needs, there will be a way"

...finally edited...

yes..i finally be able to edit and uploaded my blog, well hope u all can surf and comment, haha...
...im not that good in editing-_-" well hope its okay...

holidays...

its holidays^-^...
i guess the best thing about it is relax and rest up...hahaha
what a rejoice
well i have not much planning in the meanwhile...i guess better prepare for all my teaching ,materials and also...Blog writing...hahaha
it had been a long time since back then...
i deleted all the older post as ita a history already...well, hope to have more time to edit after school opening..
until next time..all the best!!"(^-^)"

front line work---just do it!!---part 1

...well as i graduated from Northern University of Malaysia, i started to look for various job, ever since, its about a year ago...time flies...i tried to look for educational line as my career, even though its not my major of my degree,so i pick up the job as a kindergarten at the first place. Well, i guess that's where the fun started...